The handing out of a wedding speech time slot can be a lot like handing out staffing appointments for an incoming Presidential administration — you don’t always choose the most qualified person for the job.

So, how do you choose the right people to give a speech on your wedding day?

Couples will often choose a song for the wedding party, and a separate song for the bride. This offsets the bridal entrance and makes it more special. It also gives the officiant a natural break to ask your guests to stand.